September News

Each month there will be a new announcement video from Pastor Alan AND we will post the church news and updates, ie. September News, October News. Check back here regularly for updates.
September News was originally posted September 2, and has been recently updated.
Updates 9.14.20
Children’s Ministry Update
Children’s Ministry (nursery through fifth grade) will re-open this Sunday, September 20th at 9:30am. Masks are not required for pre-K children; others may remove their masks once seated in class. Please watch the video announcement from Pastor Tim, he covers what to expect, how to check-in and how to pick up.
Sunday Morning
We have one service at 9:30am. Join us in-person, in-parking lot or online. For in-person service we’re using masks, practicing physical distancing and keeping up with additional cleaning procedures. Read more about what to expect on Sunday here:
Grief support group meets on Wednesdays at 6:30 pm at the church. This is open to anyone dealing with the loss of a loved one. For details go here:
Upward Flag Football Donation Wall
Check the foyer for the donation wall. You can pick up donations tags from the donation wall on Sundays 8-11am and Wednesdays 6-8pm. Beginning this Sunday the 6th and dropping off by Wednesday the 16th. There will be a box out front.
***We are always in need of: 12 oz Gatorade, can sodas (Coke, Diet Coke, sprite), bottles of water, napkins
Feedback-Opening Children’s Ministry
We’ll be sending a survey through text alerts. If you have children/grandchildren in Nursery-PreK, please take a minute to give us  feedback on whether you are ready to have your little ones back in class. You can also complete the survey here:
Wednesday Night Bible Study (online only)
Beginning Sept. 2, join Pastor Alan live on YouTube at 6:30 pm on YouTube Live:
Marriage Night
September 13th at 6pm. Look for Aaron and Terri in the foyer, they’ll be happy to answer questions and help you register ($15pp). Or register online, purchase your IN-PERSON TICKET here: We are gathering in-person to stream the event at church, or you could watch the event from your home, from your Right Now Media. 


August News

Each month we will post the church news and updates, ie August News, September News etc. Check back here regularly for updates.
Sunday morning we have one service at 9:30am, in-person, in-parking lot or online. For in person service we’re using masks, practicing physical distancing and keeping up with additional cleaning procedures. Read more about what to expect on Sunday here:


GriefShare (grief support group) begins Wednesday, Aug. 26, 6:30 pm at the church. This is open to anyone dealing with the loss of a loved one. For details go here:
Upward Flag Football practice begins the week of Sept. 2; Evaluations are cancelled. Registration is open, online only:

Check the foyer for the donation wall.

Student Work Day
Wednesday, September 2 students 6-12th grade meet at 8am. Contact Tim for details.
Wednesday Night Bible Study with Pastor Alan begins Sept. 2 This study will be online only at 6:30 pm on YouTube Live:


Marriage Night is Sept. 13. Look for Aaron and Terri in the foyer, they’ll be happy to answer questions and help you register. Or register online, here:


Blood Drive

We are hosting a community blood drive for the Blood Bank of Delmarva on Saturday, August 1st, 8:30-1:30pm Please help during this extraordinary time in our nation’s history by donating blood. Click here or call 1.888.825.6638 to make your appointment to save lives.  
Please remember to bring your donor ID card or know your donor ID number ABC123. 
For questions about eligibility due to travel outside the U.S., medications or medical conditions call 1.888.825.6638.

To learn more about the importance of donating at this time and to answer your questions regarding COVID-19, please visit


  • Must wear a mask or face covering
  • Will have their temperature taken
  • Must be 14 days symptom free if recovered from COVID-19
  • May NOT donate if they have a positive diagnostic test or experienced symptoms of COVID-19 in the last 14 days
  • May NOT donate if they are currently on self-quarantine restrictions
  • We do not test for COVID-19. Please contact your health care provider if you want to be tested.


Pastor’s Pen in a blog written by Pastor Charlie, our Family Ministries Pastor and counselor.
Pastor Charlie shares biblical counsel with us on thoughts related to current issues we face during the COVID19 pandemic. 

Sin Exposed


“We must all suffer from one of two pains: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret. The difference is discipline weighs ounces while regret weighs tons.” – Jim Rohn

Many people were disappointed and surprised to see yet another Christian leader, Jerry Falwell Jr. and his wife make the news because they acted like anything but Godly people. The head of one of the largest Christian universities in the world and his wife were exposed as hypocrites who have been privately mocking the holy God that we serve. These are just the latest in a long line of people used by God who have gone astray. The list goes back at least as far as King David. How can this happen? What were they thinking? What are we to think? 

Should we just show mercy and not talk about what they’ve done? God uses the story of King David as an example of the consequences of sin. His failures are recorded for the whole world to see. There are right conclusions to draw from these examples; there are also wrong ones.

Wrong conclusions

There are speed limits on nearly every road in the country. Sometimes we don’t understand them, and they may even seem arbitrary. Rational people realize that because drivers are often careless and reckless, limits must be imposed for everyone’s safety. Imagine that a child is a passenger in her parent’s car for years and nothing bad happens. One day while driving her father becomes insanely angry, ignores the speed limit, accelerates to a hundred miles an hour, fails to make a turn and the girl is seriously injured in a terrible traffic accident. As she thinks about all the pain and suffering she endures, she concludes that speed limits are no good. She will ignore them when it’s up to her because the accident proves they simply don’t work.

She fails to consider the accident is the result of ignoring the speed limit. Riding in the car was safe until then. This proves that speed limits are good and are there to protect us.

Imagine a child is growing up in a Christian home for years and nothing bad happens. One day her mother becomes overwhelmed, ignores God’s law about marriage, and leaves home to be with a man she met online. The child is trapped in the fallout of terrible divorce. As she contemplates all the pain and suffering she endures, she concludes that God’s laws are no good. She will ignore them when it’s up to her because her parents’ divorce proves they simply don’t work.

She fails to understand the adultery and divorce are the result of ignoring God’s laws. Life was good until then. This proves that His laws are good and are there to protect us.

The kind of conclusion we see in the second scenario is all-too-common – almost typical of people who have lived through the moral failings and hypocrisy of “Christian” parents or church leaders. You may know someone who has drawn this same conclusion.

Christians in the news

“Christian” leaders regularly make news headlines because of their moral failures. This often catches us by surprise. In the church of Jesus Christ such a thing should not happen. But people in positions of power and money often fall into sin. We should be no more surprised by those high-profile failures than the fact that all Christians face temptation and those with little or no power and money are often exposed as hypocrites as well.

The news outlets, Christians, and everybody else seems quick to give opinions when things like this happen. I will let the Bible speak to this as it has much to say about sin and its consequences – in the lives of all believers and specifically in the lives of leaders. It also addresses the responsibilities of leadership. 

The Bible speaks

  • 1 Peter 2:11-12 Dear friends, I urge you, as foreigners and exiles, to abstain from sinful desires, which wage war against your soul. 12 Live such good lives among the pagans that, though they accuse you of doing wrong, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day he visits us.
  • Galatians 6:7-8 Do not be deceived, God is not mocked; for whatever a man sows, that he will also reap. For he who sows to his flesh will of the flesh reap corruption, but he who sows to the Spirit will of the Spirit reap everlasting life.  
  • James 3:1   My brethren, let not many of you become teachers, knowing that we shall receive a stricter judgment. 
  • Titus 1:6-9 An elder must be blameless, faithful to his wife, a man whose children believe[b] and are not open to the charge of being wild and disobedient. Since an overseer manages God’s household, he must be blameless—not overbearing, not quick-tempered, not given to drunkenness, not violent, not pursuing dishonest gain. Rather, he must be hospitable, one who loves what is good, who is self-controlled, upright, holy and disciplined.He must hold firmly to the trustworthy message as it has been taught, so that he can encourage others by sound doctrine and refute those who oppose it.
  • Proverbs 30:7-9 “Two things I ask of you, Lord; do not refuse me before I die: Keep falsehood and lies far from me; give me neither poverty nor riches, but give me only my daily bread. Otherwise, I may have too much and disown you and say, ‘Who is the Lord?’ Or I may become poor and steal, and so dishonor the name of my God.
  • Luke 12:1-3 In the meantime, when an innumerable multitude of people had gathered together, so that they trampled one another, He began to say to His disciples first of all, “Beware of the leaven of the Pharisees, which is hypocrisy. For there is nothing covered that will not be revealed, nor hidden that will not be known. Therefore whatever you have spoken in the dark will be heard in the light, and what you have spoken in the ear in inner rooms will be proclaimed on the housetops.

Right conclusions

The call to Repentance and Forgiveness

The exposure of sin is always painful, and it often reflects negatively on the church. However, sin must always be confronted. God is concerned with the salvation of souls, the purity of individuals and the holiness of His church. For holiness to occur we must each be confronted with our sinfulness, truly repent, and turn to God in humility.
  • Proverbs 28:1 He who covers his sins will not prosper, But whoever confesses and forsakes them will have mercy.
  • 1 John 1:9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.


It is painful and disappointing when we face our sin and its consequences. But honest exposure and repentance is the only path to forgiveness and mercy. It should come as no surprise that people sin. The holiness of God is our standard and our goal. We should rejoice when sin is exposed.

God has not failed people. People have failed God and the consequences prove the rightness of God’s laws and His holiness.

God’s love, holiness, and mercy as well as His name will be exalted and glorified or dishonored and mocked by the actions of his people. As Pastor Alan has been warning us, we need to be ready for what comes next. The day of His return is closer today than it was yesterday. Keep watch; be ready. Keeping our relationship with Jesus fresh and vibrant by taking everything to Him, while pressing into knowing Him better is one of the best ways we can do just that. 


What’s the Truth? Part 3


God wants His children to have nice things

“Christians should never say ‘I can’t,’ because the Bible teaches that we should say ‘I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.’ To not step out shows a lack of faith. Look it up; it’s in the Book of Philippians in the Bible.”
The conversation began at church. The couple we’ve been following for the last two weeks in this column is approached by someone who sympathetically says, “I’ve noticed your car is really old; God wants His children to prosper and have nice things. You should go pick out a new car.”


By this time our couple now has several children, and as usually happens, money is tight. They are growing spiritually and as a family. When they explain that they won’t be able to make the payments they are told that the Bible teaches that they can afford whatever they want. Christians should never say “I can’t” but should stand on the “promises of God.”

Philippians 4:13 really does say “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”

This verse is very appealing as a proof text. Anyone can pull this verse out of context and make preposterous claims. However, “All things” does not mean someone can flap their arms and fly or cure cancer with candy. This rich passage doesn’t promise that we can have everything we want. Rather it is a wonderful instruction on how to deal with all those things we find ourselves facing in a broken world. Every Christian will face joys and disappointments. Many times, things go the way we hope and many times they don’t.

I can do all things

Look at Philippians 4:13 in context:

Rejoice in the Lord always. Again I will say, rejoice!

Let your [b]gentleness be known to all men. The Lord is at hand.

Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy—meditate on these things. The things which you learned and received and heard and saw in me, these do, and the God of peace will be with you.

10 But I rejoiced in the Lord greatly that now at last your[c] care for me has flourished again; though you surely did care, but you lacked opportunity. 11 Not that I speak in regard to need, for I have learned in whatever state I am, to be content: 12 I know how to [d]be abased, and I know how to [e]abound. Everywhere and in all things I have learned both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need. 13 I can do all things through [f]Christ who strengthens me.

How to have peace and contentment

Paul gives us a side by side comparison of exactly what things he is referring to. He talks about anxiety and peace in verse 6; he talks about difficult times and prosperous times as well as being hungry or full and having abundance or suffering need in verse 12.

Mixed throughout is a prescription for dealing properly with all things. Rejoice, verse 4; Be Gentle (unselfish and patient), verse 5; Pray and Be Thankful, verse 6; focus on and think about these things, verse 8; and do what God has taught us to do, verse 9.

The results are amazing! Verse 5 says whatever you are facing, the Lord is right here with you. Verse 7 states that God’s peace, so complete that it doesn’t even make sense in a broken world, will protect how we feel and how we think in every situation.

It does not mean that if we spend more money than we have, money will magically appear or if we eat a terrible diet, we will be healthy. There is no promise that we will have only easy times. We may have easy times to enjoy and we may have difficult things to face, but whatever things we end up dealing with, we can be content because Jesus provides the strength we need. The “things” that happen in life are where God meets us and gives us peace. Whether it’s pandemic, illness or health, financial problems or riches or any of the many situations that we deal with in life, it is important to have a solid theological foundation. This kind of foundation doesn’t happen instantly or haphazardly or by believing everything we hear but only by careful, prayerful study of God’s word.


True story – surprise!

So, how is our couple doing now in 2020?
I would say that Janice and I did

“Taste and see that the Lord is good; blessed is the one who takes refuge in him.” Psalm 34:8

and are blessed beyond our wildest dreams.


What’s the Truth? Part 2


Last week we considered that “A text without context is a pretext for a proof text.” We looked at how pulling a single verse from the Bible and using it to make a point can lead us away from truth rather than into truth. While there are many verses in scripture that stand alone as great truths, reading scripture in context always gives a better understanding.


Let’s now look at another case where proof texting has be used to take a verse out of context and arrive at a conclusion that is quite different from the real meaning-the intention of the author.


No Interracial Marriage?

Imagine the young couple introduced last week has now settled comfortably into a local church. They have even made some friends. The preaching and teaching often challenge them and check out against what they read in their Bible. Then one week in a small group study, the leader opens to 2 Corinthians 6:14 which says, “Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness?” The group leader is an older man, a respected leader in their church. He is quite serious about his faith and knows his Bible very well. His teaching uses part of the verse (what communion has light with darkness?) to claim the Bible teaches interracial marriage in wrong – proof texting! Not at all what the author (in this case, Paul) wanted his readers to take away. In this example of proof texting, a meaning is applied to several words in a verse without even looking at the context of the verse or other New Testament teaching.


It’s easy to visualize our couple now passionately doing their own study in the Bible to see if 2 Corinthians is really advocating separation of races in marriage. It looks to them like it’s rather a warning against idolatry. They find several passages that taken in context begin to present a theme. One is Acts chapter 10. There Peter, a disciple and friend of Jesus, has a vision which really challenges him. Up until this point he has kept himself separated from non-Jews according to the traditions of the law. After the vision and meeting with some other Christians “Peter opened his mouth and said: “In truth I perceive that God shows no partiality. But in every nation whoever fears Him and works righteousness is accepted by Him.” Acts 10:34-35 – NKJV. 

Another story they see is in Galatians chapter 3. Paul (the same person who authored the book of 2 Corinthians) is writing to some (including the same Peter in the previous paragraph) who appear to be going back to depending on the law and “segregation” from non-Jews. In a powerful portion (from Gal 2:11 to Gal 3:29) the conclusion is “For you are all sons of God through faith in Christ Jesus. For as many of you as were baptized into Christ have put on Christ. There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is neither male nor female; for you are all one in Christ Jesus. And if you are Christ’s, then you are Abraham’s seed, and heirs according to the promise.” Galatians 3:26-29 NKJV


We Are Outta Here…

They rightly conclude that the Bible teaches that everyone who accepts Jesus is the same in God’s sight and any cultural or racial differences are not a part of true Christianity. Our couple now has a decision to make. They could just leave the church and look for another fellowship; just keeping quiet and not saying anything is an option. Instead they decide to meet with the pastor to ask if the church doctrine is truly against interracial marriage. Through this conversation and another with some of their friends, they learn this is not the position of the church. They decide to stay and politely challenge unbiblical teaching in a polite and peaceful way and hopefully continue to grow and mature with this group of people as life goes on.


Conclusion-Until Next Week

Rather than simply accept what was taught, they read it in context. As they learned more, they were able to see that there is a larger context not only for a verse, but that there are themes throughout the whole Bible. By questioning what is thought and taught, studying the Bible in context and sharing what they learn, they are becoming Bible scholars and leaders.